September 21, 2007

SEX IN Marriage

Got this in my mail and decided to share it with you all.
So what do you think?

Sex according to Pastor Khathide (Ugandan):
A lot of people don't associate sex with God,
they associate it with Satan and darkness as if sex
weren't holy.The bible is explicit when it comes to
sex.Sex is holy within marriage and there is no
prescribed style.Nowhere in the Bible does it say that the
missionary position is the only sexual style. Not
discussing sex in a relationship leads to
divorce!!!!!.Pastor Khathide has counseled women who've
complained:my husband treats me as if I were his
brother.There was one who told him:I am tired of
getting sex fortnightly, like a salary.
Khathide told her she was lucky to be getting sex
fortnightly,since some wives only get it on big
days, like elections.

Many husbands leave their wives to seek sexual
pleasures in Hillbrow.Have you ever asked yourself what those wives have that you don't.Wives have become very frigid and even sleep with
their panties.If you're a married woman, you should
sleep naked and let your bum touch your husband.
Today you find men going out of their way to get a
glimpse of a vagina.They page through magazines and even go to
lingerie departments in stores hoping to see what's
hidden under panties because their wives hide it
from them.

Marriage is about being free with your body in front
of your partner. A woman should parade naked and do
some modeling to tempt her husband.There are many married women who don't know what their husband’s penises look like.They only feel it
when he enters her.They've never touched it,let
alone see it because the husband switches off the
lights before undressing.A penis is a wife's toy -
she is supposed to play with it.

He blames couples for not making time for sex and
complaining about being tired after a day's work.
You find many couples who've been sexually starved for years. God created sex for procreation and also for pleasure.
You can't marry and not have a good time in bed.

Why can't you drive home during lunch and have a
quickie with your wife?
We're all equal in sex,it's not just about a woman
satisfying a man.You have to satisfy each other.
Have you ever seen a woman who has been satisfied?
Have u noticed how she glows and becomes energetic?
May the Lord Bless you. This is the "Whole Truth,
Nothing but the Truth" so God Help Us.


Refinedone said...


Anonymous said...

Well said. A lot of misunderstanding about sex stems from our culture or upbringing. Some cultures make it seem as if sex is a dirty thing, a necessary evil and an unholy act. Some cultures make you feel guilty if you admit you like sex. Even some churches misrepresent sex in marriage, like it is an unholy act and God does not like it. Some cultures think only men should enjoy sex and the woman is just there to pleasure her man, but she gets nothing out of it. Some cultures even go as far as circumsizing the woman so that she feels nothing during sex. It is all so sad. I wish more people will wake up and smell the coffee. God created sex and He designed it for our pleasure within marriage. It is almost a tragedy if two people are married and yet they do not have a mutually satisfying sex life. Where else would they get their physical pleasures from?

Nijawife said...

Na true you talk.If you dare make a mistake of complaining that your dear husband only sleep with you once in a quarter of a year,you will be called names but other option you know get,na to dey die in silence.