The major problem i have with the marriage is my hussy attitude and making me feel as if he is doing me a favour by being married to me.I come from a monogamous home where there is peace and love and he from polymous which somehow affected him and can not understand most of his view to life.I tried to make him see things in other ways but see issues in his own way and always say his father's view to his mother is the law and as such,i should be able to act and behave like his mother who will never disaagree with his father in his lifetime no matter the discomfort.Yes,iam not perfect and i dont claim to be but with open communication and mutual respect,we can straighten out our differences.We definately come from two different background and as such,we will see issues differently but being rigid to your ways and how you want me to run my life without asking for input from me is uncalled for.

Iam a graduate myself and doing very well in my professional and can not be below his standard in anyway,afterall we met when both of us are just starting our career.I remembered those days when he will come to my house looking downcast that he hope i will forever be with him and that he hope his background will not deterred me from marrying him and i stood solidly behind him.