August 25, 2010

All For Good

An old story is told of a king in Africa who had a close friend with whom he grew up. The friend had a habit of looking at every situation that ever occurred in his life (positive or negative) and remarking, " This Too is for Good!"

One day the king and his friend were out on a hunting expedition. The friend would load and prepare the guns for the king. The friend had apparently done something wrong in preparing one of the guns, for after taking the gun from his friend, the king fired it and his thumb was blown off. Examining the situation the friend remarked as usual, "This Too is for Good!" To which the king replied, "No, this is NOT good!" and proceeded to send his friend to jail.

About a year later, the king was hunting in an area that he should have known to stay clear of. Cannibals captured him and took him to their village. They tied his hands, stacked some wood, set up a stake and bound him to the stake.

As they came near to set fire to the wood, they noticed that the king was missing a thumb. Being superstitious, they never ate anyone that was less than whole. So untying the king, they sent him on his way. As he returned home, he was reminded of the event that had taken his thumb and felt remorse for his treatment of his friend. He went immediately to the jail to speak with his friend. "You were right," he said, "it was good that my thumb was blown off." And he proceeded to tell the friend all that had just happened. "And, so I am very sorry for sending you to jail for so long. It was bad for me to do this."

"No," his friend replied, "This Too is for Good!"

"What do you mean, ‘This is good'? How could it be good that I sent my friend to jail for a year?"

"If I had NOT been in jail, I would have been with you."

This is  asking you to try this approach to life. It changes your entire perspective on things.

Do u know the relationship between your two eyes? They blink together, move together, cry together, see things together & sleep together. Even though they never see each other.

Sometimes people are nothing, you make them something and when they become something, they feel that you are nothing.
Even though you may want to move forward in your life, you may have one foot on the brakes.

 In order to be free, we must learn how to LET GO . Release the hurt. Release the fear. Refuse to entertain  old pain. The energy it takes to hang onto the past is holding you back from a new life.
What is it you would let go of today?


The nitty-gritty tales of a housewife said...

Thought provoking words...every disappointment should be seen as a blessing in can never tell.....GOD allow some events to happen for our good but due to our impatience & trust in him, we don't wait & 'help' HIM, hence causing more harm than good.

Also letting go of a 'hurt', 'pain' & betrayal takes a gradual process which heals with time & it's so true that people you've help with everything end up believing you've done NATHING for them!