I am only as strong as the caffeine I drink, the hair spray I use and the girlfriends I have.Here's to you!Why do we only have parties for each other when one of us gets married, pregnant, has a birthday, or retires?What would most of us do without our sisters, confidants, and shopping, lunching and traveling girlfriends?.
Let's celebrate each other for each other's sake!
-Someone will always be prettier.
-Someone will always be smarter.
-Their house will be bigger.
-They will drive a better car.
-Their children will do better in school.
-And their husband will fix more things around the house.
So let it go, Be Happy!
And love yourself and your circumstances.Think about it.
The prettiest woman in the world can have trouble in her heart.
And the most highly favored woman on your job may be unable to have children.
And the richest woman you know, she's got the car, the house, the clothes.... might be lonely.
And the word says if "I have not Love, I have nothing."
So, again, love you.
Love who you are...
Look in the mirror in the morning and smile and say
"I am too blessed to be stressed and too anointed to be disappointed!"
I like that!
"Winners make things happen.
Losers let things happen"
Be blessed ladies and encourage other women
"To the world you might be one person,
But to one person you just might be the world".
LetsStay Focused In our Faith
Live Simply; Love Generously, Care Deeply and Speak Kindly
June 29, 2007
June 21, 2007
My birthday
Our dear Mom,
Mom, we loved you yesterday, we love you tomorrow and everyday.
You were there for us our first day of school, to hold our hand and give us courage to go.
You listened to us when we needed to talk, you talked to us when we needed to listen.
You let us grow and learn from our own mistakes.
You never left our side when we was feeling down, we know you would be there for us.
We wish there was a way we could repay all the things you have done for us, but there's nothing great enough to repay the greatest mother of all.
Your Birthday is here,
Bringing joy and pleasures new,
On this special day, Mother dear,
We want to remember you.
We cannot give you costly gifts,
And we've told you this before,
No matter what we give to you,
You give back much, much more.
We are giving you a pure, sweet rose,
Gathered in the early morn,
This rose you planted in our heart,
The day that we were born.
In kindly, loving thoughts of you,
And with the faith you still impart,
The rose we give to you today,
Is the love that's in our heart.
--- Your kids
Yesterday was my 38th birthday and i was hoping i will get a surprise birthday greeting from my blogger friend but nothing,anyway i know you all love me despite not sending a word or if not,why am i getting such a good traffic on my blog everyday-i love you all.My kids woke me up with happy birthday mummy song and a beautiful handmade card with above insribe on it-i guess they got it from interner(God bless them),their daddy as usual was still sleeping as i had to leave home on time as my bank dont observe all those strikes and as i was leaving,he just open his eyes and said today is your birthday and i thought you will stay with the kids and i just ignored him and left-no hard feelings,he is just like that.I thank God for all his blessings,where do i begin-lovely kids,a husband,good job,good health and of course love from my family and friends.
June 15, 2007
Pampurred
15 PIECES OF ADVICE TO BE PASSED ON TO YOUR MUM, YOUR DAUGHTERS OR GRANDDAUGHTERS, NIECES, AUNTS, GIRLFRIENDS, ETC.
1. Don't imagine you can change a man - unless he's in nappies.
2. What do you do if your boyfriend walks out? You shut the door.
3. If they put a man on the moon - they should be able to put them all up there.
4. Never let your man's mind wander - it's too little to be out alone.
5. Go for the younger man. You might as well, they never mature anyway.
6. Men are all the same - they just have different faces, so that you can tell them apart.
7. Definition of a bachelor: a man who has missed the opportunity to make some woman miserable.
8. Women don't make fools of men - most of them are the do-it-yourself types.
9. Best way to get a man to do something is to suggest he is too old for it.
10. Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.
11. If you want a committed man, look in a mental hospital.
12. The children of Israel wandered around the desert for 40 years. Even in Biblical times, men wouldn't ask for directions.
13. If he asks what sort of books you're interested in, tell him cheque books.
14. Remember a sense of humor does not mean that you tell him jokes, it means that you laugh at his.
15. Sadly, all men are created equal.
Refer my blog to Bright Women to make their day!
and to a few "good men" too!!
Enjoy your weekend with your love ones
1. Don't imagine you can change a man - unless he's in nappies.
2. What do you do if your boyfriend walks out? You shut the door.
3. If they put a man on the moon - they should be able to put them all up there.
4. Never let your man's mind wander - it's too little to be out alone.
5. Go for the younger man. You might as well, they never mature anyway.
6. Men are all the same - they just have different faces, so that you can tell them apart.
7. Definition of a bachelor: a man who has missed the opportunity to make some woman miserable.
8. Women don't make fools of men - most of them are the do-it-yourself types.
9. Best way to get a man to do something is to suggest he is too old for it.
10. Love is blind, but marriage is a real eye-opener.
11. If you want a committed man, look in a mental hospital.
12. The children of Israel wandered around the desert for 40 years. Even in Biblical times, men wouldn't ask for directions.
13. If he asks what sort of books you're interested in, tell him cheque books.
14. Remember a sense of humor does not mean that you tell him jokes, it means that you laugh at his.
15. Sadly, all men are created equal.
Refer my blog to Bright Women to make their day!
and to a few "good men" too!!
Enjoy your weekend with your love ones
June 11, 2007
Woman Seeking Man
Churches and i guess mosques get many prayer requests for a mate.
Many are lonely and seek a spouse.
They also get many more prayer requests from those who need help in
dealing with the spouse that they already have.
This issue may help many women (and men) who are desperately
looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right. Some have even settled for
Mr. or Mrs. Right Now.
The phenomenon affects more women than men.
Society and perhaps biology have long ago programmed women to
believe that they need to be married early. Good marriage is a
good thing, make no mistake about that, but so many rush
headlong into misery.
Let me give those rushing and anxious souls something to
consider that may make the wait far more tolerable.
1. Over half of all marriages end in divorce.The figures are
now moving closer to two out of three.This figure might look debatable
among the experts but one thing is sure, it's a high figure.
Divorce is rated as the second most traumatic event in life,
second only to death of a spouse.
By the time people divorce, they have usually gone through many
years of unhappiness.Chances are only four out of ten that won't divorce.
2.A survey asked couples married for 25 years or more
one question.
The question was:
"If you could get married all over again,
would you marry the same person?"
The results says-50% said yes, but 50% said no.
Half of the couples married for over 25 years said they would
NOT marry that person again.Needless to say, those were not 25
years of bliss.Those couples were not happy.
I know from dealing with people that those stats are accurate.
So here is the breakdown.
According to the stats, if you marry, there is a one in five
chance that you will be together 25 years later and not regret
whom you married.
One in five!
Marriage is a great thing when it is right.
When it is very wrong, you are far better off remaining single.
Its better when "You asked you are not married at 35?"
politely says "No,".
"but I'm not divorced either."
Take your time.
Become content.
Know the truth that it is better to remain single than to go
through a tumultuous divorce or be stuck with someone whom you
really regret you married in haste.
There is one other bit of advice.
In most cases where the marriage has really gone sour, almost without fail, one of their parents had told them not to marry the person.
Listen to mama and daddy.
It may save you many headaches and heartaches from what you are
rushing off to do.
Many are lonely and seek a spouse.
They also get many more prayer requests from those who need help in
dealing with the spouse that they already have.
This issue may help many women (and men) who are desperately
looking for Mr. or Mrs. Right. Some have even settled for
Mr. or Mrs. Right Now.
The phenomenon affects more women than men.
Society and perhaps biology have long ago programmed women to
believe that they need to be married early. Good marriage is a
good thing, make no mistake about that, but so many rush
headlong into misery.
Let me give those rushing and anxious souls something to
consider that may make the wait far more tolerable.
1. Over half of all marriages end in divorce.The figures are
now moving closer to two out of three.This figure might look debatable
among the experts but one thing is sure, it's a high figure.
Divorce is rated as the second most traumatic event in life,
second only to death of a spouse.
By the time people divorce, they have usually gone through many
years of unhappiness.Chances are only four out of ten that won't divorce.
2.A survey asked couples married for 25 years or more
one question.
The question was:
"If you could get married all over again,
would you marry the same person?"
The results says-50% said yes, but 50% said no.
Half of the couples married for over 25 years said they would
NOT marry that person again.Needless to say, those were not 25
years of bliss.Those couples were not happy.
I know from dealing with people that those stats are accurate.
So here is the breakdown.
According to the stats, if you marry, there is a one in five
chance that you will be together 25 years later and not regret
whom you married.
One in five!
Marriage is a great thing when it is right.
When it is very wrong, you are far better off remaining single.
Its better when "You asked you are not married at 35?"
politely says "No,".
"but I'm not divorced either."
Take your time.
Become content.
Know the truth that it is better to remain single than to go
through a tumultuous divorce or be stuck with someone whom you
really regret you married in haste.
There is one other bit of advice.
In most cases where the marriage has really gone sour, almost without fail, one of their parents had told them not to marry the person.
Listen to mama and daddy.
It may save you many headaches and heartaches from what you are
rushing off to do.
June 5, 2007
MARRIAGE QUOTES
I recently read that love is entirely a matter of chemistry that must be why my wife treats me like toxic waste-David Bissonette.
When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him
Keep her-Sacha Guitry.
After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just
Can't face each other, but still they stay together-Hemant Joshi.
By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get
A bad one, you'll become a philosopher-Socrates.
Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them-Dumas.
The great question... Which I have not been able to answer... Is, "What
Does a woman want?-Sigmund Freud
I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me-Anonymous.
"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to
A restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music
And dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays"-Henny Youngman .
"I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years"-Sam Kinison.
"There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic
Banking. It's called marriage"-James Holt McGavran
"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me, and the
Second one didn't"-Patrick Murray
Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you're right, shut up.
by Nash.
The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it
Once...Anonymous.
You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to-Henny Youngman.
My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met-Rodney Dangerfield.
A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong-Milton Berle.
Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy-Anonymous.
A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds: "Wife wanted". Next day he
Received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have
Mine"-Anonymous
First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive.".
Haba!na so men see us in marriage
When a man steals your wife, there is no better revenge than to let him
Keep her-Sacha Guitry.
After marriage, husband and wife become two sides of a coin; they just
Can't face each other, but still they stay together-Hemant Joshi.
By all means marry. If you get a good wife, you'll be happy. If you get
A bad one, you'll become a philosopher-Socrates.
Woman inspires us to great things, and prevents us from achieving them-Dumas.
The great question... Which I have not been able to answer... Is, "What
Does a woman want?-Sigmund Freud
I had some words with my wife, and she had some paragraphs with me-Anonymous.
"Some people ask the secret of our long marriage. We take time to go to
A restaurant two times a week. A little candlelight, dinner, soft music
And dancing. She goes Tuesdays, I go Fridays"-Henny Youngman .
"I don't worry about terrorism. I was married for two years"-Sam Kinison.
"There's a way of transferring funds that is even faster than electronic
Banking. It's called marriage"-James Holt McGavran
"I've had bad luck with both my wives. The first one left me, and the
Second one didn't"-Patrick Murray
Two secrets to keep your marriage brimming
1. Whenever you're wrong, admit it,
2. Whenever you're right, shut up.
by Nash.
The most effective way to remember your wife's birthday is to forget it
Once...Anonymous.
You know what I did before I married? Anything I wanted to-Henny Youngman.
My wife and I were happy for twenty years. Then we met-Rodney Dangerfield.
A good wife always forgives her husband when she's wrong-Milton Berle.
Marriage is the only war where one sleeps with the enemy-Anonymous.
A man inserted an 'ad' in the classifieds: "Wife wanted". Next day he
Received a hundred letters. They all said the same thing: "You can have
Mine"-Anonymous
First Guy (proudly): "My wife's an angel!"
Second Guy: "You're lucky, mine's still alive.".
Haba!na so men see us in marriage
