March 7, 2007

I got a comment on my last post and it got me thinking on why men always think they are doing us favours at all time.Our culture have made them belief its their world and we must accept whatever they do to us as our lord and master without complain,afterall they are our crown.How can men think because we have offloaded,our thing is not so tight again and we cant perform that magic in our department and will always prefer a fresher blood,are they saying that makes us less of a woman?somebody once told me that after four kids why iam i still thinking i can get my hussy undivided attention and of what use will i be to him than to concentrate on taking care of my kids-imagine that.They have concluded in their mind that we can not give maximum pleasure again and must look for fresh blood who can be useful for their ego trip and who says men too are that good again after certain age and not with the rat race they are doing now which has reduce their prowess as a man.Whether i be mother of four or ten,the fact remain that am a full flegde woman and can still perform wonders and its not only through that means one can give pleasure,if you guys decided to abandon us-na una go regret.Its really a funny world-when a man is caught with another woman,heaven will not fall but when a woman is just suspected,they begin to call on their god of whatever to strike her dead but if you abadoned your major,they pursue minor-na u sabi but no say one man abadoned property,na hin be chasis elsewhere and my bible did not say man can look at other women and women dare not but both of us must not commit adultery.

13 comments:

Anonymous said...

Look Iyawo,the sooner you begin to face reality that you are in an world that have shield laws for men, the better it is.Forget those 1995 Beijieng conference talk on feminism.Sincerely, am not trying to hold brief for the men,Infact they are wrong in all spheres, but wetin u wan do? Something wey Funmi Ransome kuti and Margaret Ekpo die for, upon all no improvment on the conditions of womanhood in naija. Anywoo,i was d guy who made d comment on you dropping 4 pikins. So you still tight? Thanks to kegel exercises then! , otherwise Oga for dey play away matches for the best stadias around.lol. Sincerely, my last comment was just to tease ya. I wasn't insinuating dat ur kongo aint no kongo anymore lol, with the way you sound confident with ur hussy, i can bet dat you are the 36 kiniuns(lions) rolled into one when on the bed type. keep up d good job of Making Oga scream,moan,yell,quiver,tremble...which other word i fit use again ooo, sombody helep me.....lol

anijawife said...

Beijien or no beijien,start treating us right like you want somebody to do your mother,sister and daughter.We know our culture is against women but must we continue to make it so.We can never be equal,you have an edge over us but treat us right.Thanks bro for the comment

Anonymous said...

When a man emotionaly abandones his wife and not make her feel loved or special to him, he should not wonder when someone else steps in.
We women should try and not always let the men bring us down and take oue selfesteem.
Adultry is a sin, only whenis is a woman. when it is a man is called temptation or mistake!

Ubong Da said...

I hear a lot of stories of women who when they relocate to obodo oyibo with their husband after winning Visa lottery now start adopting the western life style and disrupting the peace, harmony and tranquility that existed in the home, all in the name of Beijien coference.

Kpakpando said...

ubong, peace, harmony and tranquility for whom? the woman who runs herself ragged just to keep oga happy? that shege is not peaceful. A man wants to be treated like a king, yet he refuses to act nobly and "kingly."

Waffarian said...

which one "be western lifestyle" eh! Bros, why now? Make I break it down, i fit cook, clean, "cater" to my man, but the day wey e go wake up and the first thing wey comot e mouth na "where is my breakfast?" hahahahahhaah, i go first laugh, and dat time una go see real "wsetern lifestyle" abeg, just because women dey demand, at the very least, some respect, una go begin dey shout beijing conference, wetin beijing conference get to do with am, abeg , dat one na ordinary common sense!

Soul said...

Ubong da...

I've read your comments so far in this thread and I notice...
you keep trotting out the standard cliches but you stop just shy of making really making yourself extremely clear.

please clarify what you mean by 'adopting western lifestyle'
'disrupting the peace' and please explain what the Beijing conference has to do with anything?'.

What exactly are you trying to say.. why are you soo scared of women?.
Why must you try to dominate them.

Here we naijawife makes a post about women are discarded based on perception and you in all your wisdom say something about women adopting a western lifestyle ..

why don't you breakdown what you are trying to say.. so everyone can see that despite what you might type..
you really are no different from the average naija dude and infact your opinions are no different from some of the men that Naijawife has written about...
why don't you go further in your analysis..

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