February 9, 2007

Next week is going to be about love as its valentine week and i should start thinking ahead of what to get my hussy and how to get him to come home on time.The guy is a workaholic though he play hard as well with the boys but is ever on the move and i hope all those girls will not monopolise him for me that day.We never celebrate valentine together since we married as he is not into that and he is always saying will that put food on the table or are you still a young girl but never trust all these men when they get out there-they could be anything and i want to change that this valenine-thanks to you all,i have forgiven him for not honouring me on val days,i remembered the first valentine as a couple,i had gone out of my way to buy an expansive brandy and prepare a nice meal to go down with it but behold my hussy did not get home until past 2 in the morning of the following day with cock and bull story and since then i ve had non challant attitude to the occassion but deep me i still feel the pain.Since then i decided to count the day like any other day though he is not an expressive person but i know he cares but could not just show it in the way we women want.So,what do you advice i do to get him into my bossom on the day

4 comments:

mamarukky said...

Well, since you said he doesn't care much for stuff like that, then don't get him anything. Why not treat yourself instead? You seem to be a very hardworking wife and mother? Get your hair done, take a log bath, relax, get a good novel and relax........make it your day.

Tina said...

I agree, why waste money on somebody that does not deserve it? take care of yourself jare!

lola said...

Geez! Have you ever tried talking to your husband about what you want from him? You can't keep pushing yourself without coming to terms with the fact that you both need help in making your marriage strong. Pardon me for being so forward but I sense there are too many cracks and you can't keep cellotaping cracks. One day, they'll just disintegrate. You seem to love your husband and you believe he loves you. So, communicate with him. Stop bottling everything inside.

Anonymous said...

God, this man does not know the gem that is at home. hopefully you are still there when he does realize it. my heart feels sad for you...