I started this blog with the aim of sharing my burden with different people from all work of life and expect to get different reactions of course but the mails i get this day tend to portray me as a bad wife and bad role model for younger girls who are about to marry or encouraging those who already have bad feelings about marriage.I have no intention of doing all that,afterall despite everything i still stay put in the marriage and believing God will do wonders through prayers and with good counselling and since in Niger,we have not develop or have courage to go to a counsellor for such issue,i decided to make it open like this and since it guarrantee my privacy,i felt iam having a sort of connection with fellow women and men who belief in the institution and can relate and offer advice for people in my situation.Marriage is good no doubt but everything now depend on how the two partners take it and dont forget our background,culture,values and beliefs have a part in the success of an Africa marriages.