April 27, 2007

is there conspiracy on women in blogville?dont mind me,they are written by women as well.Most of the blogs i read this week has something to do with infidelity and how some women are disgracing womanhood and how their men though they are not saint are outsmarting them by lacing dangerous juju on them.Iam not here to defend what is indefensable as its clearly stated in the bible that do not commit adulatery.We women need to talk to ourselves-yes,men are giving us a rough ride and they never appreciate us but that does not justify that act.Iam there and know how it feels when you are called all kind of derogative names,humiliated and insulted in the presence of everybody and he is a just a husband by name but despite all that he is the only one you can lay claim to as belonging to you even if he is a beast(sorry)and dont forget you are still under his roof and bear his name.I quite know that its challeging and takes the grace of God not to give face to anybody who says nice things to you and make you look like a queen but remember he can not be the father of your kids and it can only remain illicit affair and why do you want to go through what if of the mess.If your marriage is not working and the man turn you to furniture in the house and your body cant hold-take a walk and move on with your life.We all get tempted here and there but we must know when you say NO and RUN away from the devil.

For men out there who think the best way to deal with a wayward woman is to lace her with magun,just remember vegeance is for God and not you,recall what happen in the bible and remember that woman who everybody wanted to stone and how our lord settle the matter-are you yourself innocent and how many other people wife are you chopping,everything in life follow the law of karma.Its better to send her packing when caught than dragging your kids into all that mess,dont forget there is no way it wouldnt affect them-the kids of the adulterous woman.Our lord and master,please temper justice with mercy o,abi what do you feel?

6 comments:

Ubong Da said...

I don't support the idea of a man putting Magun on his wife afterall most naija married men have strayed at least once. Women are now begining to do the same as this is the liberated age of womanhood. What makes it worse in the case of a woman is the danger of bringing another man's child into the home, here lies the fundamental fear.

The 7th year itch in marriage is real. A former, now married ex of mine is currently putting a lot of pressure on me for an illicit affair check my blog on "Seduced by a friend" she keeps asking when am going to take her out and I asked her if it includes checking into a place and spending some hours. she said yes ofcourse. She calls every week trying to persuade me. Says the sex in her marriage is dull and she keeps remembering the time we spent together.

anijawife said...

Abeg run fi cover,you are too young to die of magun and u know say we your fans go miss you pass your belle

MamaBomboy said...

For me, the question is why? Why do men/women risk everything for a fleeting moment of passion. Why risk the stability of your home? Why risk the hurt/depression/anger/lack of trust that is surely to come? Why?

Esau... why did you give up your inheritance, for a bowl of porridge? Didn't you know the value of what you had? King David... you only slept with Bathsheeba once.. just once..But why? You probably knew God would forgive, but look at the curse you put on your family.

If you spouse is not what you want.. build him/her up.

@Ubong da.. please o...you are playing with fire. Why even entertain the girl by talking on such things. I mean, if you are married, don't you think that is disrespectful to your wife?

Chameleon said...

please where are the blogs of the women considering these options... i always wondered if jazz can work in jahnd.

Bluntremi said...

Cheating is an issue whether we like it or not;for both men and more and more for women. Magun isnt the answer though...

Ideally, I like freedom of choice and knowing that someone is with me because they choose to be, and not because they are forced to.

I would never use Jazz and I hope to GOD that its never used on ME!!

Anonymous said...

I have seen all the comments and i must say some made sense and some also didn't.i believe the only way to stay in this marriage and have the best of it is to visit the foundation of your marriage.what kind of foundation did you build on?i believe every woman and man knows about 90% of the potentials of their spouse b4 marriage but like most ladies make the mistake of thinking that their "biological clock" is ticking they close their eyes to the flaws they know they can't live with in their spouses under the pretext of "he will change" and eventually it comes back to hunt you in the marriage.well the mistake of overlooking might have been made i think the next step is for both of you to accept Christ and invite Him to be the foundation of your relationship and give it time with prayers and following after God's heart both of you will be changed but i must say you have to give it time and work along with God.if this can't be done you will continue to go through the same circle of life till the end of life.