November 29, 2007
What would you do
Somehow,i ve made up my mind that if i catch my husband cheating on me,i can only rake,shout and throw all kind of tantrum but will not take a walk but talk it over after showing remorse,lets face it-how many nija men dont play away game,not with all the harassment from all those half nakedly dressed ladies parading the street(i no dey justify their philadering)but this sister case,na another matter.A sister caught her husband with her supposedly friend(married too)in her matrimonial home and the husband is telling her to either take it easy or she lose her marriage if she make any trouble and her husband get to know as he will not abandon her but be with her all the way and that,she will be the loser as he will have no option than to marry her and she must know that he doesnt have the intention of having two women in his house.She said the traitor was just saying i never mearnt to hurt you and please dont let this spoil our friendship-imagine that crab!.If you are face with the situation,what will you do?
November 27, 2007
Kept women
I know we are all "kept" women- for it is by the power of Jesus that we can do all things!
I cannot think of a better Man to be kept by!
I Am a "KEPT" Woman.
You see,there were a few times when I thought I would lose my mind,but GOD KEPT me sane.
(Isaiah 26:3)
There were times when I thought I could go no longer move, but the LORD KEPT me moving.
(Genesis 28:15)
At times, I've wanted to lash out at those whom I felt had done me wrong, but the LORD KEPT my mouth shut.
(Psalms 13)
Sometimes, I think the money just isn't enough, but GOD has helped me to KEEP the lights on, the water on, the car paid, the house paid, etc.
(Matthew 6:25-34)
When I thought I would fall, HE KEPT me up. When I thought I was weak, HE KEPT me strong!
(I Peter 5:7, Matthew 11:28-30)
I could go on and on and on, but I'm sure you ve xperienc this! Praise the Lord
I'm blessed to be KEPT!
Are you, or do you know a KEPT Woman?
I cannot think of a better Man to be kept by!
I Am a "KEPT" Woman.
You see,there were a few times when I thought I would lose my mind,but GOD KEPT me sane.
(Isaiah 26:3)
There were times when I thought I could go no longer move, but the LORD KEPT me moving.
(Genesis 28:15)
At times, I've wanted to lash out at those whom I felt had done me wrong, but the LORD KEPT my mouth shut.
(Psalms 13)
Sometimes, I think the money just isn't enough, but GOD has helped me to KEEP the lights on, the water on, the car paid, the house paid, etc.
(Matthew 6:25-34)
When I thought I would fall, HE KEPT me up. When I thought I was weak, HE KEPT me strong!
(I Peter 5:7, Matthew 11:28-30)
I could go on and on and on, but I'm sure you ve xperienc this! Praise the Lord
I'm blessed to be KEPT!
Are you, or do you know a KEPT Woman?
November 23, 2007
Why men are never depressed
Men Are Just Happier People-- What do you expect from such simple creatures?Their last name stays put.The garage is all theirs.Wedding plans take care of themselves. Chocolate is just another snack.They can be President. They can never be pregnant. They can wear a white T-shirt to a water park.They can wear NO shirt to a water park.Car mechanics tell them the truth.The world is their urinal.They never have to drive to another gas station rest room because this one is just too icky.They don't have to stop and think of which way to turn a nut on a bolt.Same work, more pay. Wrinkles add character.Wedding dress 250K,Tux rental-15K.People never stare at their chest when they're talking to you.New shoes don't cut,blister or mangle their feet. One mood all the time.
Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.They know stuff about tanks.A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.They can open all their jars.They get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite them, she or he can still be their friend.Their underwear is 2.5k for a three-pack.Three pairs of shoes are more than enough.They almost never have strap problems in public. They are unable to see wrinkles in their clothes.Everything on their face stays its original color.The same hairstyle lasts for years,maybe decades.They only have to shave their face and neck.
They can play with one toy all their life.One wallet and one color for all seasons. They can wear shorts no matter how their legs look.They can 'do' their nails with a pocket knife.They have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.
They can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.
No wonder men are happier.
Phone conversations are over in 30 seconds flat.They know stuff about tanks.A five-day vacation requires only one suitcase.They can open all their jars.They get extra credit for the slightest act of thoughtfulness. If someone forgets to invite them, she or he can still be their friend.Their underwear is 2.5k for a three-pack.Three pairs of shoes are more than enough.They almost never have strap problems in public. They are unable to see wrinkles in their clothes.Everything on their face stays its original color.The same hairstyle lasts for years,maybe decades.They only have to shave their face and neck.
They can play with one toy all their life.One wallet and one color for all seasons. They can wear shorts no matter how their legs look.They can 'do' their nails with a pocket knife.They have freedom of choice concerning growing a mustache.
They can do Christmas shopping for 25 relatives on December 24 in 25 minutes.
No wonder men are happier.
November 21, 2007
What if…………….
PHCN acquire MTN,
Nigerian Railway Corporation also acquire Celtel,
And NIPOST is buying out Glo!!,
Lastma is planning to buy Virgin Atlantic,
And Etteh is taking over from Dora!!,
Wealth Solution (wonder bank) has just bought First Bank ,
ALAO AKALA is taking over from Soludo as CBN Gov,
Nigeria Police Force has acquired Transcorp Hilton?,
And our own ENYIMBA Football Club has just bought 91% shares in Manchester ’s United in preparation for a takeover,
PETER ODILI will be taking over from Nuhu Ribadu (EFCC),
Nigerian Police Force trains FBI and Scotland Yard Officers.
ADEDIBU HAS BEEN NAMED THE NEW SECRETARY GENERAL OF THE UNITED NATIONS, IN RECOGNITION OF HIS ROLES IN STABILIZING DEMOCRAZY IN NIGERIA.
THE Under-17 GOLDEN EAGLETS TURNED THEMSELVES IN AND RETURNED THE WORLD CUP BACK TO FIFA, SAYING THE YOUNGEST AMONG THEM IS 36YEARS OLD!
What do u think?
Nigerian Railway Corporation also acquire Celtel,
And NIPOST is buying out Glo!!,
Lastma is planning to buy Virgin Atlantic,
And Etteh is taking over from Dora!!,
Wealth Solution (wonder bank) has just bought First Bank ,
ALAO AKALA is taking over from Soludo as CBN Gov,
Nigeria Police Force has acquired Transcorp Hilton?,
And our own ENYIMBA Football Club has just bought 91% shares in Manchester ’s United in preparation for a takeover,
PETER ODILI will be taking over from Nuhu Ribadu (EFCC),
Nigerian Police Force trains FBI and Scotland Yard Officers.
ADEDIBU HAS BEEN NAMED THE NEW SECRETARY GENERAL OF THE UNITED NATIONS, IN RECOGNITION OF HIS ROLES IN STABILIZING DEMOCRAZY IN NIGERIA.
THE Under-17 GOLDEN EAGLETS TURNED THEMSELVES IN AND RETURNED THE WORLD CUP BACK TO FIFA, SAYING THE YOUNGEST AMONG THEM IS 36YEARS OLD!
What do u think?
November 20, 2007
Na wa oh!
This our banking job has turned to "Dear Aunty" forum where you get to hear different stories and give advices as you think fit in order to retain your customer and stay close to them.A customer was in my office today to just say hi after a long while and i was just being customer friendly and i asked after her family and it was as if she just needed to talk to just anybody who can empathise with her.She said she lost her husband to cancer about three months ago and since then,she is been through all kind of intimidation and harrassment.She narracted how after his death,she was taken to the village to do all kind of traditional rite and God,her hair was shaven,slept in a darkroom for some days and within days,they started asking for her husband worth and to compound her problem,the family want to pass her down to her husband brother and the fool was even behaving as if he was already expecting the man to die and take over her.She rejected the offer andsince then,she has know no peace and her mother who suppose to know better says she should reconsider her stand as its better for her to be alive to take care of her five kids than face the consequence of her behaviour.She sounded tough and ready to face them all the way but why must she go through that.
Everthing sounded like tales by moonlight to me but the look on the woman i saw and her countenance says it all.Abeg i no understand,i thought that tradition is dead and gone with my grandparent.Can you accept such a proposal and under what condition and what will the brother gain from marrying after five woman?I need somebody to make me see reason bcos as for me tufiakpa!make person wey no fit look my face when magida dey now dey shine kongo-NO
Everthing sounded like tales by moonlight to me but the look on the woman i saw and her countenance says it all.Abeg i no understand,i thought that tradition is dead and gone with my grandparent.Can you accept such a proposal and under what condition and what will the brother gain from marrying after five woman?I need somebody to make me see reason bcos as for me tufiakpa!make person wey no fit look my face when magida dey now dey shine kongo-NO
November 19, 2007
26 Beautiful One-liners
1 <>Give God what's right -- not what's left.
2<>Man's way leads to a hopeless end -- God's way leads to an endless hope.
3<>A lot of kneeling will keep you in good standing.
4<>He who kneels before God can stand before anyone.
5<>In the sentence of life, the devil may be a comma--but never let him be the period.
6<>Don't put a question mark where God puts a period.
7<>Are you wrinkled with burden? Come to the church for a face-lift.
8<>When praying, don't give God instructions -- just report for duty.
9<>Don't wait for six strong men to take you to church.
10<>We don't change God's message -- His message changes us.
11<>The church is prayer-conditioned.
12<>When God ordains, He sustains.
13<>WARNING: Exposure to the Son may prevent burning.
14<>Plan ahead -- It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark.
15<>Most people want to serve God, but only in an advisory position.
16<>Suffering from truth decay? Brush up on your Bible.
17<>Exercise daily -- walk with the Lord.
18<>Never give the devil a ride -- he will always want to drive.
19<>Nothing else ruins the truth like stretching it.
20<>Compassion is difficult to give away
because it keeps coming back.
21<>He who angers you controls you.
22<>Worry is the "darkroom" in which "negatives" can develop.
23<>Give Satan an inch & he'll be a ruler.
24<>Be ye fishers of men -- you catch them & He'll clean them.
25<>God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.
26<>Read the Bible -- It will scare the hell out of you.
2<>Man's way leads to a hopeless end -- God's way leads to an endless hope.
3<>A lot of kneeling will keep you in good standing.
4<>He who kneels before God can stand before anyone.
5<>In the sentence of life, the devil may be a comma--but never let him be the period.
6<>Don't put a question mark where God puts a period.
7<>Are you wrinkled with burden? Come to the church for a face-lift.
8<>When praying, don't give God instructions -- just report for duty.
9<>Don't wait for six strong men to take you to church.
10<>We don't change God's message -- His message changes us.
11<>The church is prayer-conditioned.
12<>When God ordains, He sustains.
13<>WARNING: Exposure to the Son may prevent burning.
14<>Plan ahead -- It wasn't raining when Noah built the ark.
15<>Most people want to serve God, but only in an advisory position.
16<>Suffering from truth decay? Brush up on your Bible.
17<>Exercise daily -- walk with the Lord.
18<>Never give the devil a ride -- he will always want to drive.
19<>Nothing else ruins the truth like stretching it.
20<>Compassion is difficult to give away
because it keeps coming back.
21<>He who angers you controls you.
22<>Worry is the "darkroom" in which "negatives" can develop.
23<>Give Satan an inch & he'll be a ruler.
24<>Be ye fishers of men -- you catch them & He'll clean them.
25<>God doesn't call the qualified, He qualifies the called.
26<>Read the Bible -- It will scare the hell out of you.
November 16, 2007
Why Settle for less
Have you notice the new trend among our ladies,i mean the above 30 with good jobs and good pedigree?they seem to be settling for married guys or being mistress to a big man and remain a kept person for the rest of their life.Iam not moralising because iam married but i just dont buy into it-the lies,double life,humiliation,loneliness etc.Can somebody please tell me why our girls are settling for just anything to belong to a man or the rational for it?
November 14, 2007
The Smart Woman Manifesto by Vicki Flaugher
A Smart Woman uses her entire toolbox of experiences,talents,feelings,logic, intuition,education and yes,even her mistakes to live her life authentically engaged.She takes the time to care for herself,evaluate what she really thinks and feels and acts and reacts from a place of patient love,energized compassion and balanced accountability.Choices are opportunities and she welcomes them.Opportunity leads to her future and she faces that future with a ready and willing heart and a nimble and open mind.
A Smart Woman respects other's points of view while still making her own choices. She gives generously to others while nurturing herself.She knows the value of boundaries and is skillful in using them to build stronger relationships.She speaks up when she needs to and she knows how and when to supportively listen as she keeps her vision of peace and tolerance in sight.She knows when to walk away,wishing luck and best wishes to those who are on another path.She knows and values her true worth
Adaptable,caring,capable and clever.She embraces life and triumphantly whoops and hollers her way to joy.She claims her power and her divine birthright as each of us do in a myriad of infinitely beautiful and unique ways,creating a fulfilling life as a Smart Woman.She's not out to prove anything to anybody.She is here to learn,live, love, laugh, and contribute.
I believe we all have a lot to share,to communicate,to witness and to celebrate.I would feel honored and thrilled to know you are by my side.So,what do you think?Are you ready to explore?I hope so,because today,I am making firm plans and those plans include you as my friends.I want to be a Smart Woman with firm plans. Are you?
A Smart Woman respects other's points of view while still making her own choices. She gives generously to others while nurturing herself.She knows the value of boundaries and is skillful in using them to build stronger relationships.She speaks up when she needs to and she knows how and when to supportively listen as she keeps her vision of peace and tolerance in sight.She knows when to walk away,wishing luck and best wishes to those who are on another path.She knows and values her true worth
Adaptable,caring,capable and clever.She embraces life and triumphantly whoops and hollers her way to joy.She claims her power and her divine birthright as each of us do in a myriad of infinitely beautiful and unique ways,creating a fulfilling life as a Smart Woman.She's not out to prove anything to anybody.She is here to learn,live, love, laugh, and contribute.
I believe we all have a lot to share,to communicate,to witness and to celebrate.I would feel honored and thrilled to know you are by my side.So,what do you think?Are you ready to explore?I hope so,because today,I am making firm plans and those plans include you as my friends.I want to be a Smart Woman with firm plans. Are you?
November 12, 2007
To my female friends
I got this in my mail and decided to pass it across:
In the past week,Nicole Dishuk,aged 31 newly graduated student
with a doctoral degree about to start her new career as a Doctor,was
flown into a nearby hospital because she had passed out.
They found a blood clot in her neck and immediately took her by
helicopter to the ER to operate.By the time they removed the right
half of her skull to relieve the pressure on her brain,the clot had
spread to her brain causing severe damage.
From last Wednesday night,she had been battling.They induced her
into a coma to stop the blood flow,operated 3 times and* finally,they
said there was nothing left that they could do.They found multiple
clots in the left side of her brain The swelling would not stop and
she was on life support.
She died at 4:30 yesterday. She leaves behind a husband,2 year old
Brandon and 4 year old Justin.The CAUSE of DEATH - A birth control
injection she was getting that allows you to only have your period
three times a year.It interrupts your menstrual cycle and although
it is FDA approved,it shouldn't be!
So to the women in my cirle-I ask you to boycott this
Product & deal with your cycle once a month so that you can live the
rest of your life in a healthier manner.
Please send this to every woman you know - you may save someone's
Life...
Remember, you have a CYCLE for a reason!
In the past week,Nicole Dishuk,aged 31 newly graduated student
with a doctoral degree about to start her new career as a Doctor,was
flown into a nearby hospital because she had passed out.
They found a blood clot in her neck and immediately took her by
helicopter to the ER to operate.By the time they removed the right
half of her skull to relieve the pressure on her brain,the clot had
spread to her brain causing severe damage.
From last Wednesday night,she had been battling.They induced her
into a coma to stop the blood flow,operated 3 times and* finally,they
said there was nothing left that they could do.They found multiple
clots in the left side of her brain The swelling would not stop and
she was on life support.
She died at 4:30 yesterday. She leaves behind a husband,2 year old
Brandon and 4 year old Justin.The CAUSE of DEATH - A birth control
injection she was getting that allows you to only have your period
three times a year.It interrupts your menstrual cycle and although
it is FDA approved,it shouldn't be!
So to the women in my cirle-I ask you to boycott this
Product & deal with your cycle once a month so that you can live the
rest of your life in a healthier manner.
Please send this to every woman you know - you may save someone's
Life...
Remember, you have a CYCLE for a reason!
November 7, 2007
Marital Myths-True or False
-People marry because they are passionately "in love."
-People should marry because they are madly in love.
-Married people "love" (again, meaning wild ecstatic passion) each other.
-Maintaining "romantic" love is the key to marital happiness.
-Marriages should be totally happy and most of life's satisfactions should come from the partner.
-Marriage is meant to MAKE you happy.
-Opposites always attract. Marriage will cure loneliness.
-Partners must be totally honest and tell all.
-Good marriage partners agree on every issue and never fight.
-Incompatible couples can't have a successful marriage.
-Volatile marriages never last, quiet unions last.
-Good sex means a good marriage.
-No sex means a bad marriage
-A good marriage will mean good sex...
-Problems in the relationship always affect sex...
-An affair always means there are problems or something lacking
in the marriage.
-An affair will always destroy a marriage.
-An affair will always enhance a marriage
-A good partner never thinks of him/herself.
-A good partner never put himself him/her self first.
-The husband's work is more important than the wife's career.
-Husbands are happier when their wives are homemakers.
-In an argument someone has to be wrong and it is important to know who.
-Most marriages can't survive a period of hate. In a good marriage, sex will take care of itself.
-Married people understand each other without talking.
-Good marriages simply happen ("are made in heaven")
-Every problem must be resolved...
-A lover can be made over to your liking after the marriage.
-In a secure, devoted marriage, things do not change.
-Everyone knows what makes for a good wife and a good husband.
-Every one is equal to the task of love and marriage.
-Having children will improve and stabilize a marriage.
-Today's "normal" family is happy and doesn't have any real problems.
-A "normal" family is the nuclear family...
-A bad marriage should be held together for the children's sake.
-After the "high" of the first few months, marriage is all work and disagreements.
-Once gone, love can't be rekindled.
-Love never dies..
-Love is all you need...
-Love conquers all...
-Getting a divorce and finding another partner will solve most of the problems.
-People should marry because they are madly in love.
-Married people "love" (again, meaning wild ecstatic passion) each other.
-Maintaining "romantic" love is the key to marital happiness.
-Marriages should be totally happy and most of life's satisfactions should come from the partner.
-Marriage is meant to MAKE you happy.
-Opposites always attract. Marriage will cure loneliness.
-Partners must be totally honest and tell all.
-Good marriage partners agree on every issue and never fight.
-Incompatible couples can't have a successful marriage.
-Volatile marriages never last, quiet unions last.
-Good sex means a good marriage.
-No sex means a bad marriage
-A good marriage will mean good sex...
-Problems in the relationship always affect sex...
-An affair always means there are problems or something lacking
in the marriage.
-An affair will always destroy a marriage.
-An affair will always enhance a marriage
-A good partner never thinks of him/herself.
-A good partner never put himself him/her self first.
-The husband's work is more important than the wife's career.
-Husbands are happier when their wives are homemakers.
-In an argument someone has to be wrong and it is important to know who.
-Most marriages can't survive a period of hate. In a good marriage, sex will take care of itself.
-Married people understand each other without talking.
-Good marriages simply happen ("are made in heaven")
-Every problem must be resolved...
-A lover can be made over to your liking after the marriage.
-In a secure, devoted marriage, things do not change.
-Everyone knows what makes for a good wife and a good husband.
-Every one is equal to the task of love and marriage.
-Having children will improve and stabilize a marriage.
-Today's "normal" family is happy and doesn't have any real problems.
-A "normal" family is the nuclear family...
-A bad marriage should be held together for the children's sake.
-After the "high" of the first few months, marriage is all work and disagreements.
-Once gone, love can't be rekindled.
-Love never dies..
-Love is all you need...
-Love conquers all...
-Getting a divorce and finding another partner will solve most of the problems.
November 1, 2007
Priceless Gifts You Can Give For Free
THE GIFT OF LISTENING:
No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your responses.
Just listen.
THE GIFT OF AFFECTION:
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back,
and handholding.
THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER:
Share articles, positive news, funny stories, and cartoons to tell someone,
"I love to laugh with you."
THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT;
A simple and sincere "You look great in red," "You did a
super job," or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.
THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE:
Be sensitive to the times when others want nothing more than
to be left alone.
THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION:
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone,
even if it's just saying hello or thank you.
THE GIFT OF A PRAYER:
Let your friends and loved ones know you pray for them.
THE GIFT OF FRIENDSHIP:
Without friends life would hardly be worth living, let your friends
know just how much they mean to you today.
THE GIFT OF YOUR SMILE:
A simple smile breaks all the barriers of language and culture. Smile
and the world smiles with you!
THE GIFT OF TOUCH:
Give a hug, back rub or hold the hand of someone you love.
A stone is enough to break a glass, one sentence is
enough to break a heart... One second is enough to
fall in love and one misunderstanding is sufficient
to break friendship. Friendship is the rainbow between
two hearts,sharing 7 Characters.... First i like u,
then i loved u. Now i'm afraid to lose u, Thank you
for being my friend...
Happy New Month
No interrupting, no daydreaming, no planning your responses.
Just listen.
THE GIFT OF AFFECTION:
Be generous with appropriate hugs, kisses, pats on the back,
and handholding.
THE GIFT OF LAUGHTER:
Share articles, positive news, funny stories, and cartoons to tell someone,
"I love to laugh with you."
THE GIFT OF A COMPLIMENT;
A simple and sincere "You look great in red," "You did a
super job," or "That was a wonderful meal" can make someone's day.
THE GIFT OF SOLITUDE:
Be sensitive to the times when others want nothing more than
to be left alone.
THE GIFT OF A CHEERFUL DISPOSITION:
The easiest way to feel good is to extend a kind word to someone,
even if it's just saying hello or thank you.
THE GIFT OF A PRAYER:
Let your friends and loved ones know you pray for them.
THE GIFT OF FRIENDSHIP:
Without friends life would hardly be worth living, let your friends
know just how much they mean to you today.
THE GIFT OF YOUR SMILE:
A simple smile breaks all the barriers of language and culture. Smile
and the world smiles with you!
THE GIFT OF TOUCH:
Give a hug, back rub or hold the hand of someone you love.
A stone is enough to break a glass, one sentence is
enough to break a heart... One second is enough to
fall in love and one misunderstanding is sufficient
to break friendship. Friendship is the rainbow between
two hearts,sharing 7 Characters.... First i like u,
then i loved u. Now i'm afraid to lose u, Thank you
for being my friend...
Happy New Month
